Hey girl, are you a single woman looking for ways to enjoy your own company? This one’s for you, boo!

Those funny videos on the internet where singles joke about couples on Valentine’s Day get me every time—lol. But listen, you don’t have to spend your Valentine’s wishing. You can actually go out and do something you’ll remember!

Personally, I don’t care much for Valentine’s—it just feels like another day to me. I love seeing others celebrate, though! But I know a lot of single women who enjoy celebrating but don’t have anyone to celebrate with. That’s where a solo date comes in—it can be just as memorable.

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples—it’s a day to celebrate love in all forms. So if you’re single this year, embrace it. No waiting on texts, no last-minute dinner plans—just you, treating yourself like the queen you are.

Here are 14 solo date ideas to make your Valentine’s Day extra special!

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples

1. Take Yourself to a Fancy Dinner

Who says you need a date to enjoy a candlelit dinner on Valentine’s Day? Dress up, pick your favorite restaurant, and savor every bite. Bonus: You don’t have to share your dessert! I’ve also seen people on TikTok bring their phone or tablet to watch a movie while they eat

2. Have a Cozy Movie Night

Put on your comfiest pajamas, grab a cozy blanket, and queue up your favorite rom-com (or action, if love stories aren’t your thing). Add popcorn and your favorite snacks for the ultimate solo movie marathon.

3. Book a Spa Day

Treat yourself to a full spa experience—massage, facial, mani-pedi, the works! If you’d rather stay in, set the mood with candles, a bath soak, and soothing music for a relaxing Valentine’s Day at home.

4. Take a Solo Trip

Even if it’s just a day trip to a nearby town, getting away for a bit can be refreshing. Explore, try new foods, and enjoy your own company.

5. Go to a Museum or Art Gallery

Stroll through an art gallery or museum at your own pace. No one to rush you, no one to distract you—just you and beautiful art.

6. Sign Up for a Fun Class

Try something new! A dance class, a pottery workshop, or even an online class can be a fun way to spend the day while learning something cool.

7. Have a DIY Self-Care Night

Pamper yourself at home with a DIY spa night. Light some candles, put on a face mask, give yourself a mani-pedi, and relax with soothing music. Top it off with your favorite comfort food and a feel-good movie.

8. Have a Coffee Shop Date

Head to your favorite café, grab a fancy latte, and bring a book or journal. People-watching and soaking up the cozy atmosphere is a vibe.

9. Try a New Hobby

Always wanted to paint, knit, or learn an instrument? Today’s the perfect day to start. Find a beginner-friendly tutorial and dive in.

10. Take a Long Walk in Nature

Find a peaceful park or trail and go for a long walk. Fresh air, beautiful scenery, and time to reflect—sometimes, that’s all you need.

11. Make a Vision Board

Create your future by creating a vision board. Grab some magazines, print out inspiring quotes, and map out your dreams.

12. Have a Solo Photoshoot

Put on an outfit that makes you feel gorgeous and take some stunning pictures. Whether it’s a selfie session or a tripod setup, you deserve to feel beautiful.

13. Treat Yourself

Buy yourself something fancy—a bouquet of flowers, chocolates, or that perfume you’ve been eyeing. Because why not? Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to spoil yourself.

14. Unplug & Enjoy Your Own Company

Turn off your phone, stay off social media, and enjoy being present with yourself. Read, journal, or just sit with a cup of tea and reflect.

Final Thoughts

Alright, girl, go out there and be great! Remember: Being single on Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean you have to sit it out. It’s a day to love and celebrate yourself! So go ahead—treat yourself, spoil yourself, and most importantly, enjoy yourself. Happy Valentine’s Day!!